Patience As a Practice
Messages From The Mermaids, by Karen Kay
Today, we are greeted by the energy of the Mermaids, who invite us into patience as a practice. This card's message is:
“Practise patience. It’s helpful to let go of any expectations and surrender to life as it reveals itself.”
We often have difficulty with patience due to unconscious belief and behavior patterns that have us in fear of missing out or in fear that something will be taken away from us or we will fail in some way. These beliefs and behaviors are learned. We frequently discuss that nothing that is meant for you can pass you by, however, if this is not embodied it remains simply a mental concept thereby providing little relief. The Mermaids are inviting us into a practice of patience so that we can embody through experience the awareness that all is in process, all is well, and all is manifesting in divine timing.
This experience and embodiment is fundamental to creating a foundation of safety and trust in our lives. When we trust, we are able to let go of control - of forcing or pushing through - and we are able to allow things to unfold in their own timing. We are able to be more present and to participate in what is happening in this now moment rather than being lost in the past or the future or lost in trying to control all of the variables known and unknown. Presence leads to a richer and deeper experience of life and greater fulfillment.
Practicing patience invites us into a new balance between effort and inspired action. Rather than exerting effort in ways that are not useful, we focus or attention and take advantage of opportunities as they arise. This allows us to be available for synchronicities and to receive unexpected miracles and opportunities. This timeframe we are currently in is full of unexpected shifts and changes that will provide myriad opportunities for us if we are paying attention.
This does not mean that we do not have emotions across the spectrum, including from hope to fear. It means that we bring our consciousness to all of our feelings and do not allow our feelings to interfere with life’s unfolding. This reminds us that the Universe does not make mistakes and that there is purpose in everything that happens, from the smallest to the largest things that we experience.
When we bring our consciousness to all aspects of our life and live in this way, every aspect of our life benefits as well. Indeed, we create more space, peace, and harmony in all aspects of our life through these practices. This new equilibrium and foundation further allows us to respond appropriately to others in our lives when they are impatient with us, including holding boundaries, telling them that things cannot be rushed, and without feeling guilt or shame asking them to be patient as well. This creates a profoundly positive and abundant energy in our lives.
Take the time to connect within today and welcome forth the love and support of the Mermaids. Ask the Mermaids to reveal to you where in your life you are not practicing patience. What do you most need to know about this?
Are you afraid of missing out? Are you afraid of losing out? Are you afraid of failure or that something will be taken away from you?
Why do you feel rushed? Is this feeling real?
Where is the pressure to decide or act coming from?
Are you making decisions or acting out of fear? Or in an attempt to control?
Do you trust that all is well?
Do you believe that the Universe does not make mistakes?
Do you believe that things are always working out in your favor in the end?
As you go through your day, notice when you feel impatient and why. Bring your awareness to all of your emotions and shine light upon them. Allow yourself to let go of any guilt, shame, or other learned beliefs and behaviors. What do you notice as you release? Do you feel lighter?
This practice will serve you in making manifest all of your goals, dreams, aspirations, and hopes with less effort, less suffering, and less pain. It will also assist you in remaining in more consistent alignment with self and Spirit. Beauty awaits! ;)
